Hi, Meir Ezra, here, with a Piece Of Truth for you.
So I'm sure you've seen people in relationships, they get married, and then they get divorced, and they get married to another lady, and that lady is not necessarily better than the first one... maybe even worse! And now they will either get divorced again, or they will stay together and suffer quietly...
(And by the way, this happens to men and women, it does not really make a difference if you are the man in that situation or the woman).
And the question is, why?
Why don't you actually go back to the first lady?
She was better!
She's not as bad as the second lady, so why not go back?
Another example...
You change your supplier, and the first supplier was much better than the second one, but you will not go back to the first supplier.
Why?
Why is it that you make mistakes, you make the wrong choices, you choose something incorrectly (probably unintentionally), and then you cannot just go back and correct it?
The answer is very amazing.
The answer is so amazing that once you realize what it is, you will realize that it is the first step in recovering your own natural ability, your own native abilities, which are to bring something out of nothing, which means to do anything without any energy.
Without anything! Just to bring something, anything by decision alone - that's your native abilities.
So, you will lose your native abilities, and it is because of the reason I'm going to talk to you about...
There is one thing that is worse than dying for a human being...
What is it?
The one thing worse than dying is to say that you are wrong. You will see that you never, ever, ever, ever say that you are wrong. What you say is I'm wrong "because…" or, "I'm wrong, but…" Which means you're really saying you're not wrong!
Let’s say you have an accident, and you say, "I had the accident because I didn't see that car."
No, no, no, you had the accident because you're wrong, but you cannot be wrong, so, you have an excuse.
You have a terrible disease that is called excuse-lerosis.
Excuse-lerosis is a disease that allows you to take any wrongness and make it into rightness, to take any kind of sin that you commit and make it into not a sin, to take any lie that you tell and paint it white making it into a white lie.
It is the reason why people can do a terrible thing and still live with themselves - because they cannot be wrong, and because a person cannot be wrong, they will invent the most amazing excuses to explain how they are not wrong.
And the problem is that in order to succeed in life, you have to be able to be right or wrong with the same level of enthusiasm. You must be able to realize that you are actually never right nor wrong, you just create things!
And if you actually realize that you just create things then nothing will actually affect you. But you will cause things, and when you want any kind of sensation, you will become what I call a causative effect.
So, what's the problem that you need to handle?
The problem that you need to handle is you must be able to be wrong, and to be as enthusiastic about it, just as much as when you are right.
Because otherwise, instead of living, you will try to be right.
Instead of succeeding, you will try to be right.
Instead of going forward, you will try to be right.
You will see that the person that's really successful in something, let's say a good dancer, and they make a mistake. It's not an issue, they continue.
But a person that's not so good tries to be right, and when they make a mistake, they stop.
You'll see that if a businessperson that is really good at what they do loses money, it's not a problem, they just make more!
But someone that is not such a good businessperson, when they make a mistake when they lose money, everything stops, they go bankrupt.
So, what do you need to do?
You need to be able to be right and wrong with the same level of enthusiasm...
And how do you do it?
How do you actually recover that ability?
You start to see the viewpoint of other people.
The more viewpoints you will be able to see, the more you will be able to be right and wrong.
And the magic is that when you don't have to be right or wrong, you can create!
You can bring something out of nothing, for no reason at all.
- Meir Ezra with a Piece Of Truth for you.
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