The Secret Formula Of Improving Your Life!

Meir Ezra
Jun 6
2 min read

Most people believe the secret formula is about hard work, learning skills, or having the right connections. And while those things matter, there’s a deeper, more powerful secret that determines whether your life moves forward or falls apart.

A friend once asked me these exact questions:

"What's the formula to keep life improving? What do you need to do? What's the secret?"

After giving it some thought, I told him something simple but powerful.

He used the advice, and his life improved in a major way.

Now of course, you can go and learn all kinds of methods. You can master the know-how, the mechanics, the steps. And all of that is wonderful...

But there’s one thing that is senior to all of that.

There’s a balance in life.

It’s the balance between what upsets you and what makes you happy.

When the upset outweighs the happiness, you will fail.

When the happiness outweighs the upset, you will succeed regardless of any circumstances.

So, if your life is not going well, if you’re struggling, it’s only because the bad outweighs the good in your mind.

You have more things that upset you than things that make you happy.

The real secret? Become more happy.

That’s it. That’s the overall cure. That’s what is senior to anything else.

Do things that make you happy.

Go out. Walk. Run. Train. Do the things that make you happy regardless of how dangerous they are, regardless of how healthy they are, regardless of anything.

Now, of course, you’ve heard the joke that anything that is good is either illegal, fattening, or immoral.

But those things don’t really make you happy because right after the short-term pleasure comes a big sadness.

So being happy is not just about fun.

It’s about being true to yourself.

And being true to yourself means overcoming barriers.

If you want to be happy, go out and do things.

Not to succeed...

Not to avoid failure...

Just do them.

Here’s something fascinating:

The highest level of happiness is being willing to win and lose with the same level of enthusiasm.

When you reach that level, you become the creator of your own life, your own universe. And nothing can stop you. Nothing can hit you.