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Why You Need To Try To Fail

Today, I want to talk to you about failure.

And we'll start with a very short little exercise...

I want you to spot the first time you considered that failure was possible for you.



That's all we'll do on that.

For example, you were born and you didn't think about failure, right? You didn't think, "I'm going to fail..."

No, you were growing, and growing, and growing, and all was going well and wonderful, and at one point you decided that failure was possible... which means you considered that failure was possible, and from that moment on, failure became something you entertained.

A second before that, there was no such thing as failure for you.

Now, once you spot this point where you decided that failure was possible, you will realize that unless you considered that failure was possible, failure was not a possibility for you.

But these days, you do have areas you fail in, and so the question of course is...

what can you do?

Let's say you have an area you are failing in: you are not doing well in business, or you are not doing well with your relationships, or you are not doing well health-wise.

What do you do?

What you need to do is something that does not make sense at first, but if you will understand the mechanism, you will see that it makes a lot of sense.

What you need to do is this.

you Take the thing that you are failing at and you need to try to fail at it.

Yes, try to fail at it!

You see, you're failing and you're trying not to fail - which means you are the effect of the situation.

Alternatively, if you try to fail and you are failing, you're actually becoming cause and you are successful at failing!

If you try to sing bad, it's not a failure for you because you're trying to sing bad!

Then, since you are cause, you will be able to direct the results.

So yes, you need to try to fail and by that become successful at failing.

I know it's different!

But what you have to do in order to improve a bad condition is to become cause over that condition, and you become cause first of all by matching the situation: I am failing, so I will match it by doing badly.

If I'm trying to do a dance move and it doesn't work, I will let myself do it incorrectly, and once I gained control on doing it incorrectly I will improve, and improve, and improve.


Because I became cause over the dance move.

The applications are endless.

If you cannot sleep, force yourself not to sleep.

You have a headache? Create the headache, decide you have one! Don't resist it, create it. You will see it will go away.

This applies to almost any area of life.

If something does not work for you, try to do it badly, you will gain control over it, and at that moment you will see you will start to control the environment, and you start to control the situation.

Try it.

And go ahead and watch the video below & share, share, share.

Thank you,

Meir Ezra

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