People have the tendency to find what's wrong with people, what's wrong with situations and the interesting thing is, the more they find what's wrong, the worse it gets.
The reason is that when you have very little right with yourself, when you are not really seeing the good in you, you will find what's wrong with others.
The more they are wrong the less you are wrong because you are right or wrong in comparison to others.
You find what's wrong with someone else and you make yourself artificially right. By that, you hope you will not feel as bad because you will not be as wrong as you actually are.
What is the handling?
The handling is actually not to find what is wrong with someone else but to find what is right with you.
The more you find what's right with you, the more you validate your improvements, the better your life becomes.
You will think, "No, but I'm like...".
No.
In every situation where there is bad, there must be good before.
If you see something bad with you, prior to that bad there was good.
Love come before hate.
Plus comes before minus.
Something has to be there before it can be destroyed.
You cannot break a glass that is not there.
The way to improve is to find what's right with you and if you want to be really good, find what's right with others as well.
You will see that your life will straighten up like magic.
The more you ignore the bad and find the right, the better your life will be.
It is really magical.
The basic law is:
You correct machines by finding what's wrong with them.
You correct people by finding what's right with them.
Thank you,
Meir Ezra
info@GProsperity.com