Why Couples Fight And How To Fix It For Good
- Meir Ezra
- Aug 14
- 1 min read
I'm going to give you a tip about relationships that will change your viewpoint about arguments - about what's important and what's not in a relationship.
In every relationship, arguments are bound to happen. You might think the reason you’re arguing is because what your partner said is important.
But here’s the surprising truth:
If you don’t agree with something they said, it often means it’s not important.
So why do we waste so much energy arguing about things that aren’t important? Because we focus on disagreement instead of understanding.
The real way to “win” an argument isn’t about proving you’re right - it’s about reaching the outcome you actually want, and that starts with understanding your partner.
You don’t need to agree with what they say. Instead, try to see their perspective and what they’re trying to communicate.
Once you understand them, shift back to your main point and focus on areas where you do agree. You will see you will win in every argument.
This keeps the conversation productive and prevents you from getting stuck in a cycle of meaningless back-and-forth.
How do you improve in life?
You find things you agree with on a gradient scale. There will always be something that you can agree on.
Thank you, and enjoy the video below.
Meir Ezra
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