The Shocking Truth On Why People Suddenly Leave You
- Meir Ezra
- Sep 23
- 3 min read
Did it ever happen to you that all of a sudden your relationship with someone just deteriorated very quickly and the other person wanted to leave?
You had a person who worked for you for many years and one day, you tried to correct him on something, and the next thing, they’re leaving or saying, "Oh, you're really, really bad. I cannot live with you. I cannot work with you."
He worked with you for 8 years. Everything was okay, but all of a sudden, no. Or you are married for 30 years and one day he says or she says, "Oh, you are so bad. I cannot live with you. I have to leave you. I cannot reconcile my differences with you."
So, the only reason it happened is because the person that left actually did something really bad against you.
It doesn't mean that he killed you or he tried to kill you or he stole from you.
Although, it can be - but it doesn't mean that that's what happened. It means that in his viewpoint, he did something very bad against you.
It doesn't have to be bad from your viewpoint.
The moment that the person does something really bad against you - because the person is so good, he feels that if he will stay he will damage you more.
So he has to leave.
How can he live?
He cannot just live like that.
So what's happening is all of a sudden, he starts to find what's wrong with you.
When you're wrong enough, it's justified enough for him to leave.
Now, this thing that he finds wrong with you doesn't have to be even factual.
It's just nonsense.
I have this guy that worked for me for about 8 years. He did something really bad. I discovered it and all of a sudden, he decided that I'm impossible to work with - just like that.
The moment that he committed this sin against me, all of a sudden he cannot work with me for one day.
He has to leave today!
When someone wants to leave you...
When someone feels the urge to disconnect from you...
Don't be discouraged, just know he did something against you.
If you want to help him, that's now up to you.
If you want to help him, sit with him and find out what he did.
If you don't want to help him, you just let him go.
I had another person that worked for me. He was getting paid but he didn't actually do what he said that he was doing.
He was cheating me and the disasters that happened in his life are just unbelievable.
It's not because I wanted for it to happen, but the disaster was really unbelievable. His wife died and he had an accident that left him basically paralyzed. Two different accidents.
I have no doubt that he brought it on himself because he was doing something really bad against someone with good intentions.
If you do something bad, you need to handle it.
Handle it somehow.
Stop it.
Take responsibility.
Make up the damage.
Fix it somehow because it will hurt your life.
It might not hurt this part of your life, but you will find a way to stop yourself. You will get sick or you will have an accident or some bad luck will happen to you.
When someone has bad luck, it's because of what he did.
I know it's not a popular viewpoint, but it's true. So when you do something bad, you need to know that something bad will happen to you. You will bring about something bad to you.
It's not that there's karma and it's coming back. You are destroying yourself because you're so good and you're trying not to hurt other people. That's number 1.
Number 2, when you see someone else doing something bad, don't be discouraged. Decide if you want to help them and save their life or if you don't want to.
It's still your choice.
You don't have to help.
You choose to help. Thank you, and enjoy the video below.
Meir Ezra
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